If only everything was that apparent.

For people with only a singular life focus, it’s easy to communicate. For example, a job might be taken because:

  • the money
  • it’s a relaxed job
  • you’re good at it

However, for many people it’s a combination of money, lifestyle, family, future considerations, and more. Why isn’t always so clear for these people.

When someone asks, it may make sense to give them some kind of answer, but it is always worth checking in on yourself later to make sure it is true.

Why is one of the most difficult questions to answer because we decide on the criteria in a seemingly trivial fashion, yet at the same time that criteria is what is most important to us. It is worth questioning why when asked, even if not to simply reassure yourself.